Your attitude matters in your life

Yes! Attitude matters a lot.

Carrying the right attitude can have a magical impact on your life. It is only the God who knows what is written on the next page of your life. It comes in front of you once it is written. You have no eraser to erase nor you can cut and rewrite. So prepared to confront every situation that comes in your life.

As William Shakespeare says

There is nothing either good for bad, but thinking makes it so. It is not in the stars to hold our destiny but in ourselves.

We are in a world where people criticize more than appreciate. They try to find faults in each and every task you do. They laugh when you fall and they jealous when you grow. Many times you fall just before the finishing line. That is when they celebrate. You feel broken, tired….as if the pieces of glass shattered on the floor.

So what is in our hands????
Attitude! Your attitude towards these problems is your strength. It can not only the save you from unwanted situations, but brings you out from the deep troubles. A positive attitude may not solve the problem, but it can make a way to do so.

Right attitude at right time brings out the stronger shade of your personality.

It becomes easy for you to put forward your thoughts as you enforce the other person to listen to you. The way you speak, the words you use and your tone represent your attitude.

Attitude plays an important role at your workplace too.
Work becomes easier if you have a positive attitude towards your profession. Ask yourself if you are enjoying the work you are doing? Are you striving towards the goals of your company? Is your profession or salary is making your personal life better? Answers to these few questions will decide the attitude towards your job or profession.

“Whatever happens, just keep smiling and lose yourself in Love,” says Rumi.

The smile on your face can put the people into big trouble, especially when they have tried to hurt you. That will get confused about their actions. Such an attitude will keep you at peace, without being affected. This smile will act as a shield.

“Style is a reflection of your attitude and your personality, ” says Shawn Ashmore.

The attitude comes from not what you wear, but how you carry yourself and present yourself in front of the other. Swami Vivekananda’s iconic speech in Chicago is still in our ears. His words will always inspire the youth. He didn’t bother what he was wearing as it was different from what those people used to wear. His attitude came out rightly through his words and his personality.

“Always be yourself, express yourself, have faith in yourself, do not go out and look for a successful personality and duplicate it” says Bruce Lee.

Your attitude is what you own. You need not look around and see how people are looking or solving the problems in their life. Wear your own attitude. You need not borrow from others. Your life is your own. So be the master of your life. Walk with the right attitude and see how it works for you. You have to live for yourself, not for society.

Remember what Zig Ziglar, the American author and motivational speaker said:

“It is your attitude, not your aptitude, that determines your altitude.”

There is a lot to learn from this motivational speaker who always carried a positive attitude throughout the hurdles he faced in his life. His right attitude towards life, in the end, gave him success. He transformed his failures, loses and falls into the stairs to reach the top. Failures are stepping stones to success.